Every person born into this world is destined to carry a burden - whether he/she wants it or not. This is because we are socially-interdependent beings. Quit complaining about the burden - the burden is a constant, the variable is you. The burden has no fault, the problem is in you.
If you were a leader of any sort, you are inevitably entrusted with responsibilities - far more than the rest of the group. However, the burden's weight is not your concern, it is the strength of your shoulders that bear the burden that matters most. Start working on your shoulders, not working your mouth by grumbling over the burden.
Nevertheless, there will be a time where the weight is beyond the human limit - you just can't do it alone. If it comes to that, request for a friendly, trustworthy pair of shoulders to share the weight. Don't complain about the incompetency of your partner, it is your fault to choose a person that is incapable. Every time you point your index finger at others to blame, remember 3 more fingers of the same hand is pointing back towards you.
This world is not shape to suit you. You have to shape yourself to meld with the world. This planet doesn't revolve around you. The earlier you realize that, the better your life quality.
To the rest of you who prefers or remains as followers, please put yourself in the shoes of the leader. Empathize. The fact that most of you are in the comfort zone is due to the hard work where the leader has put in to get all the ruffled feathers and treacherous waves soothed, sorted and smoothed. Be thankful, stop complaining. If you want improvements, make constructive arguments instead of just a blunt "no" and followed by a string of annoying complaints that don't help the situation even a bit, except to irritate the leader further.
Be grateful. The reason that your life is still meaningful - a slight bit or truly - is partly due to the effort of the people around you, aside from your own actions.
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If you were a leader of any sort, you are inevitably entrusted with responsibilities - far more than the rest of the group. However, the burden's weight is not your concern, it is the strength of your shoulders that bear the burden that matters most. Start working on your shoulders, not working your mouth by grumbling over the burden.
Nevertheless, there will be a time where the weight is beyond the human limit - you just can't do it alone. If it comes to that, request for a friendly, trustworthy pair of shoulders to share the weight. Don't complain about the incompetency of your partner, it is your fault to choose a person that is incapable. Every time you point your index finger at others to blame, remember 3 more fingers of the same hand is pointing back towards you.
This world is not shape to suit you. You have to shape yourself to meld with the world. This planet doesn't revolve around you. The earlier you realize that, the better your life quality.
To the rest of you who prefers or remains as followers, please put yourself in the shoes of the leader. Empathize. The fact that most of you are in the comfort zone is due to the hard work where the leader has put in to get all the ruffled feathers and treacherous waves soothed, sorted and smoothed. Be thankful, stop complaining. If you want improvements, make constructive arguments instead of just a blunt "no" and followed by a string of annoying complaints that don't help the situation even a bit, except to irritate the leader further.
Be grateful. The reason that your life is still meaningful - a slight bit or truly - is partly due to the effort of the people around you, aside from your own actions.
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